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Mind Control
The subjects of mind control, exit-counselling and deprogramming
are very interesting. However when people mention these subjects,
people often have incorrect preconceived ideas as to what the
subject matters are about.
Mind Control for instance, is often confused with brain-washing.
Brainwashing, is the act of actually kidnapping someone or holding
them against their will so that we can “wash their brains”
of what they already know, and feed into them a new way of looking
at their beliefs, behaviour, thinking and emotions.
Brain washing is often mentioned in conversation by people who
do not understand the reality of mind control amongst destructive
cults and the occult. It is a way of glossing over the subject.
The mindset has been put in place over the last 20 or 30 years
that if someone is in a cult, then we do not have to do anything
to do with them. We are to ignore them because they are “brain
washed”.
This is not the case, and we would be doing very well to find
anyone today who fits the category of brain washed.
Mind control, whilst sounding similar to brain washing, is actually
very complex, and cannot be totally understood in our short time
this evening. However, we will try our best to get a definition
of mind control so that we at least know what to look out for
when we deal with the cults and the occult.
What then is mind control? How does it affect people?
Mind control loosely defined is the the systematic and deliberate
control of someone’s thought processes by another person or group.
It is a “system” of influences that disrupt and individuals’
identity (beliefs, behaviour, thinking and emotion) and replaces
it with a new identity.
In most cases, the new identity is one that the original identity
would strongly object to if it knew in advance what was in store.
This however, isn’t the way things turn out. Most people do not
have the time or resources to discern the facts of the situation
such as
1) Who the group they are joining actually are. (and)
2) What they do to the individual’s rights.
Leon Festinger, a psychologist, said of the “cognitive dissonance
theory”, that there were three key elements to mind control.
Control of behaviour, control of thoughts and control of emotions.
Steven Hassen, author of the book “Combatting Cult Mind Control,
Protection, Rescue and Recovery from Destructive Cults,”
says that he likes to add another one to Festinger’s list, - that
is “control of information”.
Behaviour
Thoughts
Emotions
Information
George Orwell, in his book “Nineteen Eighty Four”
mentioned these concepts. He recognised that within cult groups
there is no basic respect for the individual. The people are gradually
led to think and behave in very similar ways through a process
of mind control. As a result, they become totally dependent on
the group: they lose their ability to act on their own and are
often exploited for the sake of the group’s economic or political
ends.
On example is the Watchtower Society, the governing body of the
Jehovah’s Witnesses. Jehovah’s Witnesses are nobodies. They must
give up many things to be in favour with the organisation. They
give up their right to think for themselves in regard to their
spiritual life, and do not even trust their own interpretation
of the Bible.
A Jehovah’s Witness cannot understand the Bible by themselves.
They are taught to only trust the Watchtower Society’s interpretation
of the Bible. When talking with a Jehovah’s Witness, the results
of this mind control process is obvious. You can point out Scripture
that says one thing, and the Jehovah’s Witness will have a re-interpretation
of the Scripture quicker than you can read it. Even if it may
say that black is black, if the Watchtower Society says that it
is white, then to the Jehovah’s Witness, black is white.
Mind control is a very subtle process. It is not something that
people go looking to have done to them. It is often difficult
to detect.
There are four main types of cults in the world. If you do not
remember them, then that’s fine, the idea is to recognise the
techniques that they use to recruit people and keep them within
the group.
1. Religious cults.
These are the best known and are the most numerous. These
groups tend to focus on religious teaching. Many are Bible based,
however, some are eastern-religion based, whilst other are drawn
into the occult ways and practises, and still others are purely
inventions of their leaders.
Of the religious cults, most claim to be in the religious
realm, however, one only has to look at the lifestyle of the leaders,
their real estate, their business enterprises, etc.
Most religious cults make claims such as “we are
the only true Church” “we are God’s church for this
age” “we are the only way to truly know God” “we
are the light” “our teacher is the Messiah” “you
are on a pathway to becoming gods” “through us you can
attain spiritual perfection”.
As soon as you hear phrases
like that you know you are encountering a cult. Religious cults
also see their group as “pure” and the rest of society
as “misled” “evil” or “Satanic”,
there is often a clear division between them and us. This is a
very effective mind-control technique as any attempt to leave
induces the terrible fear of entering the evil world and parting
with the only possibilty of salvation of one’s soul - the cult.
2. Political cults.
Whilst not religious in their outlook, these groups often
have a set plan in mind. One thing that spring to mind is the
“fringe” or “extremist” groups that fight
for such things as “white supremacy rule”, etc.
These groups often have key supporters in government and
subtly recruit followers through training camps, etc.
3. Psychotherapy/educational cults.
These groups often hold workshops that are said to provide
“insight” and “enlightenment.” The meetings
are usually held in a hotel conference room environment, and often
have a goal that should be achieved. This goal is often said to
be the “peak” experience.
Those who attend, whether they achieve the “peak”
experience or not, are then invited to attend more advanced courses.
Advanced courses often lead to the attendees becoming involved
in the group. Once the person is in the group, they are then to
invite friends, business colleagues and family along to the meetings
so that they can in turn invite friends, business colleagues and
family along, and so forth.
These groups often cause nervous breakdowns, broken marriages,
and business failures.
4. Commercial cults.
These groups exist for the purpose of greed. They deceive
and manipulate the people within the group to work for little
or no pay in the hope of getting rich.
Pyramid-style or multi-level marketing organisations that
promise big money but fleece their victims are many.
Success within commercial cults involves recruiting new
people who in turn will recruit new people, and so on.
People involved often become slaves to the “company”
and turn over their money in order to pay for “living expenses.”
Who can fall a victim to mind control?
Cult groups recruit intelligent, middle class people. They look
for bright young people who look like they could further the cause
of the group/leader/organisation with little fuss.
When recruiting, the recruiter must size up the recruitee to determine
the best approach to use to get that person into the organisation.
A very deep philosophical approach would not be taken with a doer.
Doers are people that respond to actions, to physical things.
Just a point to note, that not all of our decisions are thoroughly
thought through, if at all. We have a certain degree of conscious
control, but many more matters are controlled unconsciously.
The conscious mind has a narrow range of attention. The unconscious
does all the rest, including regulating all body functions. Imagine
having to tell your heart to beat 72 times every minute. You would
be flat out telling your heart to beat, and would have little
time for anything else.
Our mind and the way it is controlled and can be controlled can
be seen by a little experiment.
Try this: Close your eyes for a minute. Take a moment to imaging
that you are in a tropical paradise for a minute. You are on a
beach and the waves are gently lapping up on the soft white sand.
There is a slight breeze blowing and you can smell the ocean.
Did you go somewhere else for a moment? This is one way in which
we can control our mind, however, cults use more of subtle approach
than this, and they don’t have a certain class of people that
they restrict themselves to.
People are often recruited into cults in one of three different
ways...
A friend or relative who is already a member
A stranger who befriends them
A cult sponsored event, e.g. a lecture, seminar, or movie.
People who are being recruited often do not know that this is
the case. Surveys show that present and former cult members were
recruited into the cult when they were most vulnerable, i.e. at
a time of crisis, distress or depression. It may have been the
death of a loved one, an accident or even the parting of company
from a very dear friend. Starting a new job is another point when
people are vulnerable, as is being in a financially bad situation.
Commercial cults, i.e. those that have the aim of “making
more money than ever and being your own boss” are the ones
that breed on the latter situation.
A key factor is the suspension of “reality testing”
during the entrance phase because the group is seen to be meeting
a deep seated emotional, spiritual or financial need. Reality
testing is our ability to check out the world for ourselves. It
is our internal warning light against deception. It operates by
comparing the object we are examining -whether it be a cult, a
motor car or a house with some external standard such as Scripture,
a RACQ check or a builder’s inspection. We use our knowledge,
logic and common sense to “sus out” the situation. Cults
isolate people from external standards in order to make reality
checking as difficult as possible. They are like a fast-talking
used car salesman who won’t let you look at other dealerships
or have a mechanical check done on the car. It involves considerable
assertiveness to resist such people especiaaly if they have a
“nice personality” as most cult leaders do on first
sight. People are conned by cults if they let their emotional
needs lead them and fail to check things out thoroughly.
This brings us to the question of deprogramming and exit-counselling.
Deprogramming, especially in the 70’s and the 80’s, was the act
of kidnapping someone against their will, locking them in a room
with the deprogrammers and showing them all the wrong things about
the group/ leadership of their cult. This is what the media portrayed
anyway. This method often backfired, and the cult member would
dig their heels deeper into the cult because everything out there
is “satanic” and they are out to take the truth from
you.
The best deprogramming, is done by the person themselves. It is
the type where the ex-member must “de-program” their
beliefs, thoughts, lifestyle and life. This way is the most effective.
Exit counselling is different again. The cult member must be willing
to talk with an exit counsellor.
In Australia, there are only a few exit-counsellors for people
within the cults. This number is very sad, considering the vast
growing mission field in the cults and the occult.
Exit-counsellors discuss aspects of the group with the cult member,
and best try to help them realise that they have been conned.
The term “mind-control” is generally best not used at
first so as not to be too confusing. The aspects that are discussed
are generally:-
A. Leadership.
Who is the leader of the group in question? What is his
or her life history? What kind of education/training have they
undertaken? Does the group’s leader have a criminal record? Where
does the balance of power lie?
B. Doctrine.
Does the group publicly disclose their beliefs? Is there
an “insider” and an “outsider” doctrine? Do
they believe that the end justifies the means? Do they claim the
“only truth”? Does or has their truth changed?
C. Membership.
Is some form of deception used to recruit members? In
the membership drive, is the org’s real name involved? Does the
recruitee meet the leadership straight away? Are members segregated
from society? How is membership maintained?
This will show a basic organisational structure, and will help
the cult member to actually consider how they get into the group,
and what happens once they are in there.
Deeper questions will reveal exactly the state of the group...
How long have you (the recruiter) been involved? Are you trying
to recruit me into any type of organisation?
Can you tell me the names of all the other organisations that
are associated with this group?
What does your group believe?
What are new members expected to do once they join? Do I have
to quit school or work, donate my money and property, or cut myself
off from family and friends who might oppose membership?
Is your group considered to be controversial by anyone? If people
are critical of your group, what are their main objections?
How do you feel about former members of the group?
Have you ever sat down to speak with a former member to find out
why they left the group? If not, why not?
Does your group impose restrictions on communication with former
members?
What are the three things that you like least about the group
and it’s leader?
What to do to help a cult member change and grow as their own
person ...
Build rapport and trust. It is recognised that friendship evangelism
is the most successful evangelism today. If people know and trust
you, then they will certainly listen to you thoughts, desires
and opinions.
Collect valuable information. You want answers from the cult member,
not the leaders of the organisation. You want “him”
to answer the questions for you.
Develop the skills to promote a new perspective. After you have
the trust of the cult member, and you have much information on
the group, you are now ready to promote a new perspective to the
cult member. This is the hardest step, and your exact approach
will be determined by the nature and character of the cult member
involved.
Get the cult member to consider reality from a number of perspectives.
This is like explaining the Trinity doctrine 14 different ways
until the person finally grasps its factuality.
Side step the thought stopping process. Negative remarks and thoughts
are side stepped by destructive cults, therefore, side-step the
negatives and introduce a positive. Instead of stating that “your
leadership ripped you off $500,000 and now live in a nice big
mansion because you were stupid enough to give them your money,”
you could try “Where did the money for such a big mansion
come from, and why are you living in this small shed, 6 to a room?”
Show the member, after you have done the other steps, a concrete
definition of mind control, and how it works, Get them to understand
that they are a victim of mind control. Get them to re-establish
reality testing and their critical faculties so that they trust
their own opinions again. This is an important step forward. It
is therfore very important to encourage every type of individual
expression they have - even if may seem insignificant it is a first
small step back to thinking for themselves. Please go from this
seminar with real compassion for those who have been involved
in cults and if a cult member should cross your path listen to
them, befriend them and believe them - it will be a healing for
them and a blessing to you.
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