Sometimes in life we need a friend
Although it's make believe
So we can pour our heart out to
Someone to whom we cleave

Seems to take the pain away
These feelings that are there
Make a wish feel this love
It's joy beyond compare

Today I need that special friend
For heart so hurt inside
Wonder if you understand
There's things I try to hide

Time that I am not so brave
My heart is filled with woe
Within my heart this gentleness
Of magic seems to flow

World so filled with sadness now
So much is on my mind
Take the time to find out now
What words of love can bind

I need to know that I'm okay
I want to feel some joy
World is filled with so much pain
And me... I'm just a frightened boy.



~ Francine Pucillo ~
©used with permission
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Helping Male Rape Victims
National Organization on Male Sexual Victimization
Abused Boys Journal
Danny
Male Abuse Survivors Kirkcaldy
Male Sexual Abuse - Donald D'Haene
The Rape of Males Article by Stephen Donaldson about male rape.
Male Rape Links to a variety of useful resources on the rape of adult males.
Understanding Sexual Child Abuse
Why Real Guys Don't Tell
Info On Abuse
Male Survivors Of Sexual, Physical, Emotional Abuse Must Visit
Male Sexual Abuse Victims of Female Perpetrators: Society's Betrayal of Boys
Male-to-Male Child Sexual Abuse In the Context of Homophobia
The Treatment Needs of Sexually Abused Men
Men Against Domestic Violence
Men's Issues Page
Vancouver Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse
Wounded Boys Courageous Men
Men's Issues Page
MenStuff
Men's Resources
Rainbow Male Survivors Network
Blain Nelson's Abuse Pages
Bibliography for Male Sexual Abuse Survivors
Therapy group focuses on male survivors of sexual abuse
The Child Abuse Survivor Monument Project Vision:
Jim Hopper's Home Page
Incest Survivors Resource Network International(ISRNI)
Male Sexual Abuse Recovery
MSOAN: Male Survivors Of Abuse and Child Neglect
Male Survivors of Sexual, Physical, and Emotional Abuse
S.A.M.S.:Sexually Abused Males Surviving
Lasting Effects, and Resources
Giving and Receiving Guidance and Hope
A Man's Grief
The Men's Issues Page
Surviving and Living - Male Survivors of Child Sex Abuse Articles, book reviews and witnessing the process by MenWeb
Invisible Boy Set of articles attempting to focus greater visibility on the issue of victimization of males by Frederick Mathews, Ph.D., C.Psych.
The Sad OrphanThis is the true story of Roger Dean Kiser, Sr., an orphan, who was physically, mentally and sexually abused by the Children's Home Society, The Florida School for Boys at Marianna and the State of Florida. His poignant messages are sharp, sad, abusive and have a deep effect on the feelings. Yet, sometimes humorous. A heart-felt message which should be read by all who truly love children.
Male Sexual Abuse Recovery Although both boys and girls show many similar behaviors as a result of early sexual encounters with an adults, it has become apparent that in some significant ways, they process the experience differently.
Male Sexual Assault Addresses the sexual assault of adult men, especially resources for male survivors.
Sexual Abuse of Boys Is More Common Than Believed Sexual abuse of boys appears to be underrecognized, underreported, and undertreated, according to a new study by researchers at the University of Pennsylvania School of Medicine.
Sexual Abuse of Males: Prevalence, Lasting Effects, and Resources Sexual Abuse of Males: This page, by Jim Hopper, Ph.D., has a discussion and review of statistics on the sexual abuse of male children, and a list of Web resources for males sexually abused in childhood.
Male survivors of childhood sexual abuse and male rape have until recently been the silent, unseen victims of sex crimes; often forgotten by the support services and legal system. In the last couple of years this has fortunately begun to slowly change. As many as 1 in 5 males will be sexually abused before the age of 18. According to FBI figures in the USA, about one in 5 adult rape victims are male. Male rape does not only happen in prisons, it also happens in peoples homes, parks, the army, children's homes; in fact it can happen almost anywhere. It also matters little how strong you are, it can happen to almost any male.
Battered Men - The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence Information about battering of men and help for victims from MenWeb.
Downeast Maine Child Abuse Survivors Ken's site offers Recovery Buddies (people further along in recovery who volunteer to exchange emails with survivors), information about advocating for children, creative writing and more.
GhostWolf - Out of the Abyss One survivor's healing journey from sexual, physical and cult abuse as well as his art, writings, heritage and wolves. NOTE: I have receive email from one SRA survivor suggesting a warning for this link stating the site is very graphic in its descriptions and highly triggering to many SRA survivors.
His Brothers' Keeper Decades later, Leonard Hare sees justice done for his brothers' deaths.
No Longer a Silent Struggle... Sheldon Kennedy's story has brought renewed attention to the sexual abuse of children by authority figures. He is not the first to step forward and help give survivors everywhere have the courage to seek help for their silent pain.
Phil Hartman's Death Reminds Us that Men Are Victims of Domestic Violence, Too The story of comedian Phil Hartman's murder and a look at male victimization.
The Rainbow Male Survivors Network An organisation dedicated to assisting and supporting gay and bisexual males who have been sexually abused providing free referrals to appropriate services and resources and committed to raising community awareness about the issues of sexual abuse against gay and bisexual men.

 

Don't Touch By
John C. Mac Iver


I look at the photograph old and decayed,
A symbol of childhood innocents swept away.
By someone who didn't care,
Anything of the pain I'd have to bear.
He didn't even love me,
Now I can't love me.
He robbed me of my self-esteem,
Of my very identity.
What was he thinking what was on his mind?
He must have been blind,
He couldn't or wouldn't see the pain on my face.
A pain that cannot be erased.
It started with one simple touch.
Maybe to him it didn't seem so much.
From there it got worse and worse.
Now for me it is like a curse.
It's been with me all of my life,
It's with me when I'm with my wife.
It's stolen my joy.
It's given me feelings
that question what it means to be a boy.
Now for those who are thinking
how cute that sleeping child is,
Stop!
Before you ruin the life they'll live.
It may seem like just a curious touch,
And it doesn't mean very much.
You may say, "they'll never know"
But from there it will only grow
Till you possess all that child had.
And leave them nothing but sad.
If you've been touched too,
Before you do it to another
remember what you've been through.
In my final words I wouldn't make a fuss,
Just Please!

DON'T TOUCH!!!!

 

Male Abuse Survivors Books
Abused Boys The Neglected Victims of Sexual AbuseExplains the ways in which boys are molested & the reasons why men remain silent about it later in life. Examines the physical & emotional impact of abuse on its victims & the factors affecting recovery. Thirteen firsthand survival stories offer inspiration.

Wounded Boys Heroic Men A Man’s Guide to Recovering from Child AbuseWorkbook for transformation addresses issues of physical, sexual & psychological abuse, prepares a road map for the recovery process, including insightful stories of real survivors, as well as direction & reassurance. Provides hope, relief & comfort; teaches methods to break the cycle of violence, make peace with the abuser & find peace within. Also a guide to help partners, friends & family members better understand the struggles these men face, so they can support the healing journey.

Alone & Forgotten The Sexually Abused ManExamines the major symptoms of sexually abused men & explains how society’s perceptions & the survivor’s healing process differ from that of their female counterparts. Offers a positive process of healing for male survivors of sexual abuse.

Speaking Our Truth Voices of Courage & Healing for Male Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse Collection of first-person testimonies confront issues of particular significance to male survivors; provides an invaluable source of hope, recognition & healing & an understanding that others have experiences the same fear, anger & pain & have struggled to come to terms with what the abuse meant for them as children & what it means for them as adults.

Leaping upon the Mountains Men Proclaiming Victory over Sexual Child Abuse Focuses on the reality of recovery. Drawing insights from men from 45 countries who survived childhood sexual abuse, presents a powerful picture of how it’s possible to not only survive but overcome.

Victims No Longer Men Recovering from Incest & Other Sexual Child AbuseA passionate & compassionate resource manual for men who are survivors of childhood sexual abuse & for the people who want to offer them support & understanding; speaks out on behalf of male victims & illuminates a number of pathways toward healing.

Abused Men The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence Examines abuse perpetrated by women on men, arguing that the statistics show that women are just as violent toward men as men are toward women; recounts the stories of abused men, presents research & offers self-help for victims.

Abused Boys, Wounded Men Interviews adult inmates to examine the role that childhood abuse played in their lives. 6-week curriculum will help adult offenders identify instances of early abuse, recognize how it has impacted their lives & learn how to live a productive life in spite of it. Includes 2 Videos, Workbooks & Facilitator’s Guide.

Wounded Boys Heroic Men: A Man's Guide to Recovering from Child Abuse

In Cabin Six An Anthology of Poetry by Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse Collection of poems explore survivors’ relationships with men & women, their sexuality & sexual feelings, loss of childhood, numbing, self-image & esteem, trust, recovery, anger, therapy, blame, betrayal, ending the silence, confronting the abuser, being believed, remembering & parenting.

Male on Male Rape The Hidden Toll of Stigma & Shame Investigates the substantial effects of male-on-male sexual violence on individuals & society, dispelling popular myths & questioning why most communities cannot or will not confront the problem of same-sex sexual violence.

In My Father’s Arms A True Story of Incest One man’s sensitive & compelling memoir of sexual abuse at the hands of his all-American father gives testimony to the strength of family bonds & to the courage & resilience of the human spirit, in spite of the suffering portrayed.

Betrayed as Boys Psychodynamic Treatment of Sexually Abused Men Examines how sexual abuse affects boys & the ways in which they carry this hurt into adulthood. Blends psychoanalytic understanding with insights from trauma-oriented theory & practice to present effective strategies for meeting the unique therapeutic needs of men with sexual abuse histories.

Treating Sexually Abused Boys A Guide for Therapists & Counselors Hands-on guide offers exercises & activities that can be applied in individual & group therapy settings & are specifically designed to help sexual abused boys overcome feelings of helplessness, fear & vulnerability & regain a sense of personal power.

Men Surviving Incest A Male Survivor Shares the Process of Recovery Discusses the isolation & stigmatization of male survivors & the fear & conflict of disclosure.

The Male Survivor The Impact of Sexual Abuse

Men Surviving Incest: A Male Survivor Shares the Process of Recovery

Everything You Need to Know When You Are the Male Survivor of Rape or Sexual Assault

 

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